I think mankind has long since past the point where they make creations more sexually attractive than themselves...
Simone de Beauvoir from 'The Second Sex'
"This attitude is displayed much more clearly in the self-mutilation common at this age. The young girl may gash her thigh with a razorblade, burn herself with a cigarette, peel off skin; to avoid having to attend a tiresome garden-party, a friend of my youth cut her foot with a hatchet severely enough to have to stay in bed six weeks. These sado-masochistic performances are at once an anticipation of the sexual experience and a protest against it; in passing these tests, one becomes hardened for all possible ordeals and reduces their hardness, including the ordeal of the wedding night.
When she puts a snail on her breast, swallows a bottle of aspirin tablets, wounds herself, the young girl is hurling defiance at her future lover -- 'you will never inflict on me anything more hateful than I inflict on myself.' These are proud and sullen gestures of initiation to the sexual adventure.
Fated as she is to be the passive prey of man, the girl asserts her right to liberty even to the extent of undergoing pain and disgust. When she cuts or burns herself, she is protesting against the impalement of her defloration: she protests by anulling. Masochistic, in that her conduct gives her pain, she is above all sadistic: as independent subject, she lashes, flouts, tortures this dependent flesh, this flesh condemned to the submission she detests -- without wishing, however, to dissociate herself from it. For she does not choose, in spite of everything, really to repudiate her destiny. Her sado-masochistic aberrations involve a basic insincerity: if the girl lets herself practice them, it means that she accepts, through her repudiation, the womanly future in store for her; she would not mutilate her flesh with hatred if she had not first recognized herself as flesh."
Simone de Beauvoir
"The fact is that eroticism implies a claim of the instant against time, of the individual against the group; it affirms separation against communication; it is rebellion against all regulation; it contains a principle hostile to society."
I remember, in high school, sitting in class.
The little plastic turnbuckles used to adjust the straps on the backs of bras were a source of fascination, often incorporated into sketches that I would do of the back of the person sitting in front of me.
Which objects, not specifically sexual in nature, have you found sexually arousing? Current Mood: curious
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Established 3/17/2004: Community to discuss post-modern sexuality.
J.G. Ballard: 'Crash'
Bob Flanagan: 'Supermasochist'
Leopold Von Sacher Masoch: 'Venus in Furs'
Vladimir Nabokov: 'Lolita'
'Dans Ma Peau'
'120 Days of Sodom'
'Sick: The Life and Death of Bob Flanagan - Supermasochist'
'Richard Kern: Hardcore'